Why am I
doing this?
A tobacco farm, a golf ball, and why I still speak up.
How I got the name
Some of you have asked over the years where the name “LeeBoy” came from. Well, like a lot of good Kentucky stories, this one involves a golf course, a couple of legendary characters, and a little bit of mischief.
Forty-some years ago, I was playing golf with my boss at the Campbell House in Lexington. Coming off the 18th hole was none other than Gatewood Galbraith.
If you knew Gatewood, you know there was absolutely NOTHING ordinary about that man. The hemp suits, the Corvette, that unmistakable personality, and a thing or two to say about liberty.
Gatewood was a Kentucky original in every sense of the word.
As he walked by, Gatewood tossed a golf ball in my direction.
I never saw it coming.
But I certainly HEARD it. And FELT it.
“LEE BOY!”
I looked up, and there stood Gatewood, wearing that unmistakable grin of a man who'd spent his whole life raising hell and enjoying every damn minute of it.
And that was it. From that day forward... every time Gatewood Galbraith saw me, I was LeeBoy.
The name stuck. Forty-some years later, here we are.
Gatewood was one of my heroes. Not because I agreed with every position he ever took, but because he had the RAW courage to stand up for what he believed. He was defending individual liberty and civil rights long before some of those positions became fashionable.
And Lord knows, Gatewood NEVER asked anybody's permission to be himself.
Over the years, I had the pleasure of sharing lunch with Gatewood at the legendary Campbell House, often joined by its owner, another remarkable Kentucky character named Kilbern Cormney.
Kilbern had begun making his fortune with vending machines in Havana, Cuba, before Castro came to power. He was a businessman, an entrepreneur, and one of those larger-than-life personalities who seemed to have a story about EVERYTHING.
And I was ALWAYS willing to listen.
Kilbern would often pick up the lunch tab.
Gatewood, as far as I could tell, never paid anyway. 😊 The respect those two had for each other was amazing.
What made those lunches so special was that I was sitting with two men who, in very different ways, had helped shape the Kentucky I knew.
And Kilbern's connection to my hometown of Richmond went back decades.

Kilbern Cormney and the Richmond We Remember
Kilbern Cormney was, in many ways, the GODFATHER of famous Richmond's bar and social scene. For almost 23 years.... Richmond/EKU made the annual "Playboy's BEST College Party Town" list. We don't have a downtown anymore. Just lawyers' offices and banks.
Kilbern's influence stretched back to the mid 1940s, when Richmond was a very different place.
Kilbern built the famous building at First and Water Streets that would eventually become one of Richmond's most beloved establishments: **The Family Dog**.
Together with his business partner, Hugh “Speck” Young, he opened the LEGENDARY **Speck's Restaurant and Bar.**
And Speck's was more than just somewhere to get a meal or have a drink.
It was a gathering place. A place to hear LIVE MUSIC, meet friends, celebrate, socialize, and occasionally get into a little harmless trouble.
Through Speck's, Kilbern helped introduce a new era of live entertainment to Madison County. During the 1950s and into the 1960s, it became one of the area's early nightspots, laying the groundwork for the dozens of bars, clubs, and music venues that would follow.
Long before I ever sat across from Kilbern Cormney listening to his business stories, he'd already helped give Richmond a place to make stories of its own.

Mention Speck's to Richmond folks now in their late 60s, 70s, or early 80s, and watch what happens.
Their eyes light up.
Suddenly, they're young again. The music is playing, the place is crowded, and they're remembering people and moments they haven't thought about in decades.
Now mention the Family Dog to the crowd that came of age during the 1970s, '80s, and '90s.
You'll get that very same reaction.
Different generations. Different names. Same building. And a whole lot of memories.
THAT is what makes Richmond's history so special to me. These weren't just buildings or businesses. They were places where friendships began, romances blossomed, bands played, and memories were made that people still carry fifty years later.
And I had the extraordinary privilege of knowing and learning from some of the great men who helped make it happen.
Gatewood and Kilbern respected each other, and I had enormous respect for both of them.
I listened. I asked questions. I soaked up every bit of wisdom and KNOWLEDGE I could from those two legends.
Kilbern taught me a great deal about business, opportunity, and the importance of relationships.
Gatewood reinforced something I have believed my entire life: If you believe in something, have the damn courage to stand up for it, even when standing up isn't particularly popular.
Those lessons stayed with me.
And every time somebody calls me LeeBoy, I still think about Gatewood, that golf ball, and that unforgettable grin.


Before there was a LeeBoy
Long before that golf ball, I was a kid on a tobacco farm in Paint Lick, Kentucky. We were poor. I don’t dress that up, because growing up with very little money taught me how much it matters to have a chance you can actually afford to take. Telling a kid to go to college is easy. Paying for it is a whole other conversation.
I studied psychology as an undergraduate and went on to earn my master’s in political science/organizational psychology at the University of Kentucky’s Patterson School of Diplomacy. I studied under my mentor, Dr. John Stempel, former Chief Political Officer at the U.S. Embassy in Tehran, and Chief of Persian Gulf Operations for the Central Intelligence Agency.
Pell Grants, Stafford loans, and Supplemental Educational Opportunity Grants (SEOG) helped me pay for school. Those SEOG grants were for REALLY poor kids like me. 😊 I did the work, and I had help getting the chance to do it. I’m grateful for both, and I think about that kid in Paint Lick whenever somebody talks about student aid like it’s just another line in a budget.
My childhood friend Kevin Boneta and I started Chapel Communications, the first internet service provider (ISP) in Madison County, Kentucky. We started out serving our neighbors from my home on Barnes Mill, with 75 phone lines in a closet in my basement. We later moved into our first data center on Main Street. It was the first of many data centers I’d work in. I KNOW THIS INDUSTRY.
We grew Chapel to serve clients in all 50 states and 32 countries. In 2000, our team won the Ernst & Young Technology Award. That trophy has the COMPANY’s name on it, and that’s how it ought to be. It took a whole team to build what we built.
Why I write
That’s why I pay attention to what people do with power. I’ve seen what a decision made far from Paint Lick can mean to a kid who lives there. In my case, it helped me get an education. When people argue about whether something like that is worth paying for, I know what it was worth to me. EVERYTHING!!
And I still think about Gatewood. He was willing to speak up for people’s rights even when it made him unpopular. I think we need more of that, especially when the people in charge would rather nobody ask a second question. We saw on January 6 what can happen when people are told over and over that an election only counts if their side wins.
We recently saw Donald Trump promise every American adult $5,000 if Republicans kept control of the House and Senate. When a president promises a check that depends on his party winning, I have to ask: Whose money does he think it is?
So here’s what I’m trying to do with LeeBoy. I want to tell you what happened, show you where I got it, and say plainly what I think about it. If somebody in power is counting on us being too busy or too worn out to pay attention, well, I’d like to disappoint them.
That’s why I’m still writing. And yes, I’m still answering to LeeBoy.
Emasculating? Is that the word? I never took it that way. To me, LeeBoy is a reminder of two Kentucky legends who took the time to share what life had taught them with a kid from Paint Lick. I’m still glad I got to listen. It was like getting an MBA from two world-class executives.
